I really need to tell this dude he has a drinking problem but I don't think any of the company he keeps give a shit that he is trying to kill himself or they're too busy being man-children to notice. Also I will be instantly shut out/he might try to fight me? Depends on the mood. Part of me wonders why it's my problem to point out someone else's problem that they don't think is a problem, especially when all of they're friends have the same problem to a less self-destructive extent. The other part of me wants to say something even if I get punched in the nose for it.
I understand too much.